Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Also, the hotdog in a hallway comment....inaccurate as well. In my experiences, these women do exist, but these conditions were not created by excessive use of that area; more so born this way.

Ever had a women with 3 or more naturally born kids? Take off your shoes and hop in. Thats maybe a reason why many women decide to get the Caesarean section?

Originally Posted by Sara504

redheads

I have a question for you out of curiosity: When you are on the hunt, at which point you tell your next upcoming exfriend that you have 6yo? Or is that written in your profile?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

Ever had a women with 3 or more naturally born kids? Take off your shoes and hop in. Thats maybe a reason why many women decide to get the Caesarean section?



I have a question for you out of curiosity: When you are on the hunt, at which point you tell your next upcoming exfriend that you have 6yo? Or is that written in your profile?

It's not written in my profile. I have very little personal information about me on my profile as I don't want all the looneys on there to see it and have my information. If we are a match, I'll provide more information at that point.

Before I meet with someone, I try to vet them as much as I can that's appropriate. As a small female, it's different as a girl meeting a 6'0"+ guy, etc...you get the point. Anyways, I will more often than not exchange social media platforms before any first encounter. My daughter is always posted throughout my instagram. They can 99% of the time figure it out for themselves if they read the captions, etc. There's photos of me pregnant on there.

I've had one guy not pick up on it. I told him during our first date that I have a daughter. I'll never forget that he said "well that's not ideal" and then proceeded to continue the date, which up until that point was going really well. I couldn't shake the comment he said about my daughter and I declined his request for a second date.

[FizzyElf]

What is love? baby don't hurt me...

[aliiin]

The Car Conundrum

She sold her to carvana, and she was supposed to drop her car off there. Mom has to drive 5 minutes to pick her up after drop off, but won't citing "it's too dark and I can't really see." Her mom is able to see and is fully able to drive. What kind of selfish fuckery is that?

Then, she wants to look for a new car. She asks for my help and I loosely told her I'll help her. We go look at various brands and models. She says she can take her time because her mom's car is available to drive. A few weeks pass by, she gets upset the there has been no car progress and that I said I'd help her but really haven't.

I told her she has to decide what her budget is and what options/packcages are deal breakers for her so we can narrow it down. Do you want a Lamborghini Urus or Toyota RAV4? She can't decide and says it just depends on what she sees and if "it's a good deal."

Feels like I have to make all the decisions for her? She has 0 independence and I think it manifests from her mom. I mean it's your car... you're going to be driving it? Why am I deciding if you should have a heated steering wheel or not?

[aliiin]

Originally Posted by Sara504

It's not written in my profile. I have very little personal information about me on my profile as I don't want all the looneys on there to see it and have my information. If we are a match, I'll provide more information at that point.

Don't you want to describe yourself as much as possible and paint a picture of yourself as accurately as possible to the other person? That way if something is a deal breaker for the other person, he can move on and not waste your time or his? Or if he sees an incapability issue?

For example, if someone has a kid that is a deal breaker for me. I'm out.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by aliiin

The Car Conundrum

She sold her to carvana, and she was supposed to drop her car off there. Mom has to drive 5 minutes to pick her up after drop off, but won't citing "it's too dark and I can't really see." Her mom is able to see and is fully able to drive. What kind of selfish fuckery is that?

Then, she wants to look for a new car. She asks for my help and I loosely told her I'll help her. We go look at various brands and models. She says she can take her time because her mom's car is available to drive. A few weeks pass by, she gets upset the there has been no car progress and that I said I'd help her but really haven't.

I told her she has to decide what her budget is and what options/packcages are deal breakers for her so we can narrow it down. Do you want a Lamborghini Urus or Toyota RAV4? She can't decide and says it just depends on what she sees and if "it's a good deal."

Feels like I have to make all the decisions for her? She has 0 independence and I think it manifests from her mom. I mean it's your car... you're going to be driving it? Why am I deciding if you should have a heated steering wheel or not?

why dont u sell her your car lol
and you can go shopping for a new one

win win situation

[Sara]

Originally Posted by aliiin

Don't you want to describe yourself as much as possible and paint a picture of yourself as accurately as possible to the other person? That way if something is a deal breaker for the other person, he can move on and not waste your time or his? Or if he sees an incapability issue?

For example, if someone has a kid that is a deal breaker for me. I'm out.

Even if their child doesn't live them or is emancipated?

And again, the answer is no. Have you not seen all the loonies I have been posting? Hinge is a superficial site. I answered the prompts. Posted the max number of photos. My age, location, height, and my drinking and drug status is viewable. That's all someone I don't know (in very close proximity to me) needs to know.....If we match, then that's another story.

[aliiin]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Even if their child doesn't live them or is emancipated?

And again, the answer is no. Have you not seen all the loonies I have been posting? If we match, then that's another story.

I haven't read anything in this thread, I'm new here

I just saw "I have very little information about me" and "I told him I had a daughter on our first date."

I guess there's exceptions to everything, right? I guess what I meant by my deal breaker is, I want to stay away from baby daddy drama and emotional baggage. I guess I'm a bit selfish as I want my significant others undivided attention?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by aliiin

I haven't read anything in this thread, I'm new here

I just saw "I have very little information about me" and "I told him I had a daughter on our first date."

I guess there's exceptions to everything, right? I guess what I meant by my deal breaker is, I want to stay away from baby daddy drama and emotional baggage. I guess I'm a bit selfish as I want my significant others undivided attention?

One of my best girlfriend's is 36 and she has a 19 year old who's away in college. Trust me when I say I was shocked when I found out she has a college age kid. She looks 25! She's got amazing genes. I hope I look as good as she does when my daughter is 19.

Mom's aren't so bad

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Mom's aren't so bad

THIS!!

Sure, there may be some drama. But who's to say there isn't OTHER drama? I went thru it with my current wife. She invited me to show up at football practice. The sperm donor showed up as well, to do the kid exchange, and told the coach "if he's here, my son isn't going to be" Coach straightened him out, and I took a week or so off, worried about the KID.

Eventually, the donor pretty much got over it, and the mother became my wife.

I'm sure none of you single males have ANY drama or baggage. . .

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by aliiin

For example, if someone has a kid that is a deal breaker for me. I'm out.

This.

You can come as you are, as long as you aren't a mom or short before maternity.
I would swipe those instantly to the "get off my lawn" side. Had encountered this once at a date and just walked up to her to say hi and bye. That was fair enough hence she'd known what I wouldn't have. If you don't like my peaches then don't shake the tree.
Well, for a mom into my age with grown and adult childs I don't know, hadn't had until yet.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

Ever had a women with 3 or more naturally born kids? Take off your shoes and hop in. Thats maybe a reason why many women decide to get the Caesarean section?

Have been in a relationship for the past 4 years with one. She's 43, had all 3 kids naturally, 118 pounds, not a single stretch mark anywhere on her, and as for the topic we are discussing. I've seen women with no children that produce echoes. I've also seen women with more than 3 kids that were quite promiscuous that didn't suffer from this problem. I'm telling you, I've never been able to make a direct correlation between lots of kids and "hallway syndrome." Some people are born with different attributes is all I'm saying.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Didn't say all, I said most all. As in like at least 85%. Not every woman does, but most do. I'll even go as far as to say maybe it's the company they were keeping at the time.

Seriously......go back to page 1 of this thread and start from the beginning. I could write a book, but instead I started this thread. The experiences held or expressed herein are only a small number of said experiences.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

You should enter the Olympics in the Back Peddling competition. He he...

Perhaps if I back pedaled. Back pedal I do not. I stand firm.

[aliiin]

What's the best dating app these days? Give me some recommendations so I can go swiping and get more wtf dating stories

[IllSic_Design]

Hinge, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, Tinder of course

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

And how firm do you stand? Like wet cement? Silly Putty? Cream cheese? Jell-O? Oatmeal porridge? Noodle al dente?......

In my twenties when I got a boner, I could barely put a kink in it. In my 40s I could sometimes bend it 90deg. Now I'm in my 60s I can nearly fold it in half. I must be getting really strong!

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

Ever had a women with 3 or more naturally born kids? Take off your shoes and hop in. Thats maybe a reason why many women decide to get the Caesarean section?

No; urban myth.

Opinion; I have never encountered a lady who I'd say was 'too loose'. I have definitely encountered 'too tight'. For perspective I'd describe my endowment as average.

I think part of this stems from the biased standpoint that promiscuous men are 'dudes/legends', and promiscuous ladies are 'sluts', which is just totally dumb.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

And how firm do you stand? Like wet cement? Silly Putty? Cream cheese? Jell-O? Oatmeal porridge? Noodle al dente?......

No.....none of these. More like rope.

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

No; urban myth.

Opinion; I have never encountered a lady who I'd say was 'too loose'. I have definitely encountered 'too tight'. For perspective I'd describe my endowment as average.

I think part of this stems from the biased standpoint that promiscuous men are 'dudes/legends', and promiscuous ladies are 'sluts', which is just totally dumb.

Well stated on the endowment. I started to touch on this as well, but as you can see from the post above, I felt like leaving it out was the best move. People that tend to make comments about their package are usually all talk. I also like to not draw attention to my really small issues.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Well stated on the endowment. I started to touch on this as well, but as you can see from the post above, I felt like leaving it out was the best move. People that tend to make comments about their package are usually all talk. I also like to not draw attention to my really small issues.

Oh I liked pretty much everything about this paragraph - well done!

[Fast.F10]

Anyone ever try the "walk out" in the middle of actions? Was at my girlfriends house (parents gone), mid_stroke got up got dressed and just left the house w/o saying anything. Was not the best thing to do in hindsight. Took a few days of ass kissing to smooth things over. To this day (30yrs later), she still brings it up from time to time when we chat bahaha. #TeenAgersDoStupidThings

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Fast.F10

Anyone ever try the "walk out" in the middle of actions? Was at my girlfriends house (parents gone), mid_stroke got up got dressed and just left the house w/o saying anything. Was not the best thing to do in hindsight. Took a few days of ass kissing to smooth things over. To this day (30yrs later), she still brings it up from time to time when we chat bahaha. #TeenAgersDoStupidThings

WTF, did you hear a 5.0 Mustang out front or something????