Bit of an update:
Went with T3 CSL wheels with these specs:
19" x 8" et34 front 225/35/19
19" x 9" et37 rear 255/35/19
Definitely nothing aggressive, but it was fitting the budget. Rear turned out excellent, front where 5mm tacked in but not a big deal. I just wanted to get the 17" replaced with something decent and get the car sold.
Here is a pic of the set-up, thanks for all suggestions, I'll keep them in mind next time I get a 35is
