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Originally Posted by CTinline-six
I'm kind of in a similar boat as her I think, and not because I want to date pilots.
The issue is that along with physical attraction we need mental stimulation. People who have the ability to do that for us are usually intelligent and focused individuals. This can sometimes mean we find people who are socially awkward as they have been focused mostly on their work.
I work in Technology, and would say a good 75% of the people I work with are perfectly nice people, but socially awkward. I remember inviting some of them to join a softball league I was in at the time and it was... interesting. There's nothing wrong with that at all, just that it can make finding someone who is a match a bit more difficult.
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at same time you are narrowing down your options and possibly missing out on a good match. And not giving the individual fair chance because your stuck on pilot mode.