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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton
And this is why nice guys have a hard time. Sure asking which drink has least sugar is a little OTT, but it's a very sensible thing to be concerned about. Doesn't know what his favourite movie is? Nor do I! It changes with my mood. There are a fair few to choose from, and they can be wildly different, so having just one favourite isn't just difficult, it's verging on closed-minded.
I'm not intending to have a dig at you, Sara; I'm just confused. 'A' caused you enough stress that you were concerned for your health, but this guy who actually didn't put a foot wrong* isn't 'exciting enough'. I simply don't understand the logic.
*Not that you've told us yet.
Sorry for the rant. This is the bit of lady-logic that I just can't wrap my head around.
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Meh, there is a difference between being a nice guy and just being boring. I'm a nice guy, but I'm flirty, make jokes, am sarcastic, and definitely know what my favorite movie is. You can be nice and still have a bit of mystery and the ability to form a connection. If there is no connection it is hard for me to be attracted to someone, so I get what Sara is describing.