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Originally Posted by nyalpine90
its upto her to put him in his place.
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This right here.
Remember the conversation on here about who holds the upper hand when it comes to be emotionally attached?
If you act on this or even show any interest...it shows her right away that you are pretty heavily invested.
Don't get me wrong....I'm not saying to be a "cold" person....but there are other ways to show her you care about her and escalating what that dumb ass is doing is not one of them!
You have sent him a message....that should be the end of it on your part. In the grand scheme of things, you stood up for your woman like any man would. Now it's up to her to do her part.
I don't have any social media....my wife does. And she is very quick to let anyone know that she isn't on the market. She has even volunteered this information to me a few times before. Mostly I ignore it and say something like..." Cool...Hopefully he can afford you!"
In the past it would lead into a conversation about how I would probably care less if she did leave...but now she knows it's just the way I am.
And for some odd reason...it makes her more possessive towards me.
Eventually she just made her account private.