Buying a house with your SO

BMW F22 · 05-23-2016, 10:21 PM

Good idea, bad idea? Just a thought that was thrown out as a possibility.

1MOREMOD · 05-23-2016, 10:25 PM

Make some sort of legal contract about what happens if she leaves you when catches you with midget porn stars.

BMW F22 · 05-23-2016, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Make some sort of legal contract about what happens if she leaves you when catches you with midget porn stars.

Why does it have to be midgets? What about some hot ass porn stars that are of regular height?

F80_M · 05-23-2016, 10:40 PM

Midget porn or nothing.....

te37 · 05-23-2016, 10:41 PM

Me and my girlfriend of 6 years purchased a house together late last year. Not married and high school sweethearts. Be warned though a house makes you more "married" than marriage. How long have you been with your SO? Can you trust her with your m3/m4? If so then go for it lol

1MOREMOD · 05-23-2016, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by BMW F22

Why does it have to be midgets? What about some hot ass porn stars that are of regular height?

Because you can get twice as many for the price, based on height.

BMW F22 · 05-23-2016, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by te37

Me and my girlfriend of 6 years purchased a house together late last year. Not married and high school sweethearts. Be warned though a house makes you more "married" than marriage. How long have you been with your SO? Can you trust her with your m3/m4? If so then go for it lol

I cringed the other night when I was sleepy and she went to move my car. Thankfully nothing happened as she was extra careful with it since she knows how much I baby my car. Only been together a year or so so this is something that could happen next year assuming things go well.

Some say that people's bad habits come out when you're living together. That scares me.

BMW F22 · 05-23-2016, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Because you can get twice as many for the price, based on height.

Interesting thought...lol

Taskmaster · 05-23-2016, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by BMW F22

Good idea, bad idea? Just a thought that was thrown out as a possibility.

Are you married? Then yes.

If you're not, then no.

ASBSECU E93 · 05-23-2016, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Are you married? Then yes.

If you're not, then no.

^this.

Flying Ace · 05-23-2016, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by BMW F22

Why does it have to be midgets? What about some hot ass porn stars that are of regular height?

The former.

1MOREMOD · 05-23-2016, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Are you married? Then yes.

If you're not, then no.

Could save you from marrying wrong person which could be more important

theriz · 05-23-2016, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by BMW F22

Good idea, bad idea? Just a thought that was thrown out as a possibility.

NO.

sirdaft1 · 05-24-2016, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Are you married? Then yes.
If you're not, then no.

Agreed.

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Could save you from marrying wrong person which could be more important

Disagreed. Other ways to find that out, outside of making (arguably) the largest purchase in either of your lives. Maybe start with a gerbil and go from there lol

bimmette · 05-24-2016, 01:09 AM

Seriously? You haven't even been dating a year. Don't do it.

The Wind Breezes · 05-24-2016, 02:32 AM

If you have to ask, bro, it's a bad idea.

jtodd_fl · 05-24-2016, 02:43 AM

Agree with bimmette that a year seems a little soon. Also agree with 1MOREMOD about having a legally binding agreement about what happens if you should separate. Not sure where you live, but the law can be complicated (or overly simple), so you should make that decision for yourselves. Also, if you should separate, emotions can get in the way of good decisions, so no matter how amicable you both think you can be later if that happens, you don't know what it would be like, so make that decision now. Lastly, you mentioned you worry that living together brings out bad habits. It implies that you two have not lived together yet. If that is the case, I recommend renting a place for at least a year first. If one of you already owns a house, then move in together without the financial marriage first. Everyone's situation is different. You may be ready this soon, who knows. But you may not be. Good luck.

BMW F22 · 05-24-2016, 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Seriously? You haven't even been dating a year. Don't do it.

Some people got married and have kids in less than a year. This is just a thought about a possibility.

BMW F22 · 05-24-2016, 02:55 AM

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Agree with bimmette that a year seems a little soon. Also agree with 1MOREMOD about having a legally binding agreement about what happens if you should separate. Not sure where you live, but the law can be complicated (or overly simple), so you should make that decision for yourselves. Also, if you should separate, emotions can get in the way of good decisions, so no matter how amicable you both think you can be later if that happens, you don't know what it would be like, so make that decision now. Lastly, you mentioned you worry that living together brings out bad habits. It implies that you two have not lived together yet. If that is the case, I recommend renting a place for at least a year first. If one of you already owns a house, then move in together without the financial marriage first. Everyone's situation is different. You may be ready this soon, who knows. But you may not be. Good luck.

Totally get your point. Hence I wanted to hear about the good and the bad from others.

BMW F22 · 05-24-2016, 05:46 AM

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Yeah OP. What an idiot. Coming here where older more experienced people with at least one thing in common with you hang out and getting their perspective. Pfft. Moron. Now go make life altering decisions with no input like a real man. Sheesh.

Axius · 05-24-2016, 06:21 AM

Don't do it unless she is just going to help home shop and you plan on having the mortgage under your name only and can pay for it on your own.

RABAUKE · 05-24-2016, 06:27 AM

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Midget porn or nothing.....

Try this one with Siri: "Siri, Google Gay Midget Porn".....laugh my ass off when she announces the search.....

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te37 Major 545 Rep 1,132 Posts Drives: F80 SS/SO 6MT Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: ATL iTrader: (3)	Me and my girlfriend of 6 years purchased a house together late last year. Not married and high school sweethearts. Be warned though a house makes you more "married" than marriage. How long have you been with your SO? Can you trust her with your m3/m4? If so then go for it lol
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