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      07-19-2014, 03:46 PM   #23
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That's the issue with your logic. This isn't a situation that revolves around revenge. Acts of Passion never are. This was a spontaneous action.
One could almost argue a natural reflex of a good parent.
I would agree with that 100%.
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      07-19-2014, 04:10 PM   #24
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I saw that a couple days ago - at first I thought "why is the guy not dead or at least have his own dick stuffed in his mouth !?!?"

there is a line when it comes to having a natural reflex to be a good parent, but I would have clearly crossed that line because chances are this guy would be dead in my living room from hemorrhaging or mutilation...

seriously, like real mutilation type shit....

yeah, that line would have been crossed and I'd probably be facing some kind of civil suit..
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I take satisfaction in knowing that when/if he ever gets out, his anal cavity will probably be 9x larger than when he went in. Cons don’t deal in liberal altruisms.
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      07-19-2014, 04:32 PM   #26
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I take satisfaction in knowing that when/if he ever gets out, his anal cavity will probably be 9x larger than when he went in. Cons don’t deal in liberal altruisms.
I like that.....liberal altruisms. Nicely done!
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      07-20-2014, 10:46 AM   #27
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My point was, that that is the time the victim needs the people she of he loves the most. Time for revenge is never that.
easy to say, hard to do
I won't accuse you of not caring enough about your child, which must make you Jesus Christ with your level of compassion for the perpetrator
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      07-20-2014, 11:46 AM   #28
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Pedophiles who molest children should all be killed. This guy is lucky he's still alive, I don't know if he would have been in my hands.
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      07-20-2014, 12:13 PM   #29
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easy to say, hard to do
I won't accuse you of not caring enough about your child, which must make you Jesus Christ with your level of compassion for the perpetrator
Haha, trust me I would have no compassion towards the pedophile. I can't even imagine what would be going trough my head at that moment, but I know for sure that I put the children first in any crises, and my priority would not be revenge, it would be to get the victim feeling safe. That's all.

I have had the "pleasure" of learning just how much I love my kids, trough serious health issues waiting to be diagnosed. We had every reason to expect our son to have heart problems, hell first day in his life his whole brain was scanned to see if he's a vegetable, every organ of his was gone trough, and some day I have to go trough the pain of explaining to him, that because mother dearest had a flu while pregnant, you are missing an ear, and your jaw is growing crooked.

We got off easy, he's okay, happy and worth more to me than anything on this planet. It's been four years, but I still wake up in the middle of the night when I remember the feeling I got every time we had to go to the doctors office and I had to repeat to myself over and over and over again, that do not kill the doctor for not giving good news, that is not his job, his job is to find what's wrong. My perfect son, and they wanted to tell me about flaws.

I fucking know love towards a child, never doubt how much.
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      07-20-2014, 07:48 PM   #30
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Okay, now you just want to think I'm taking a higher stand in this, and that I'm trying to say I'm above human flaws. That's not the case.

A former team mate of mine, whom I had not heard a word in years called me in the middle of the night once. She had locked herself to the bathroom, and till this day she hasn't talked to me about what happened there. I took her to the ER, and then returned to get her stuff, the genius took a swing at me and I lost it completely. The only reason I have a clean record is that he didn't want the world to know he got beaten up by a girl.

That had nothing to do with self-defense, I can after all these years admit my motive was pure revenge. Still, I took no action against him while the true victim was present. I like to think over all I have control over my actions, and that in times of crises, I still try to keep a clear head.

My first priority is the victim. Never revenge. I like to think that my personality will not change completely just because it is my child that is the one suffering.

As for the mentioning of the tiny sound conflict in our house, I would say passive aggressive route taken there is no way comparable to a situation described in the ot.
That doesn't make any sense at all. A guy took a swing at you, you beat him up, and he didn't press charges on you because he didn't want everyone to know he got beat up by a girl? Might be empowering to think that way but he probably didn't press charges because no charges were able to be pressed due to him throwing the first swing. Regardless, cool

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The father was there when his child needed him most.
Unfortunately the story reads that this has been going on for 3 years Props to the dad but everyone that uses baby sitters (even family!) really should setup a camera system.

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      07-20-2014, 09:32 PM   #31
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Haha, trust me I would have no compassion towards the pedophile. I can't even imagine what would be going trough my head at that moment, but I know for sure that I put the children first in any crises, and my priority would not be revenge, it would be to get the victim feeling safe. That's all.

I have had the "pleasure" of learning just how much I love my kids, trough serious health issues waiting to be diagnosed. We had every reason to expect our son to have heart problems, hell first day in his life his whole brain was scanned to see if he's a vegetable, every organ of his was gone trough, and some day I have to go trough the pain of explaining to him, that because mother dearest had a flu while pregnant, you are missing an ear, and your jaw is growing crooked.

We got off easy, he's okay, happy and worth more to me than anything on this planet. It's been four years, but I still wake up in the middle of the night when I remember the feeling I got every time we had to go to the doctors office and I had to repeat to myself over and over and over again, that do not kill the doctor for not giving good news, that is not his job, his job is to find what's wrong. My perfect son, and they wanted to tell me about flaws.

I fucking know love towards a child, never doubt how much.
Unless I am reading this wrong, if I was a child that was molested, I wouldnt feel more safe than watching/knowing my father beat the shit out of him and knowing he wont come get me anymore.

Btw sorry about the flu you got and the difficulties your son has to go through. You sound like a great mother.
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      07-20-2014, 10:07 PM   #32
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Unless I am reading this wrong, if I was a child that was molested, I wouldnt feel more safe than watching/knowing my father beat the shit out of him and knowing he wont come get me anymore.

Btw sorry about the flu you got and the difficulties your son has to go through. You sound like a great mother.
I admit, this is the difference between sexes. I show my nurturing side in this kind of situations more than the side the world gets to look usually.

In my home country also the parent would have to go trough the questioning process, and I would not take any risk that would keep me away from the child in distress even for a bit.

Thank you for your kind words, the boy is fine, and I learned a lot of myself and the world in the process. I could not be happier about all the things I have discovered because of this all, and I can truly say that the tough times seen have made me the happiest person on this planet.

@stimpy As usual any man can take down any female anytime. Sorry, of course it indeed is so, and he was fine and smelled like roses.
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      07-21-2014, 12:06 AM   #33
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Haha, trust me I would have no compassion towards the pedophile. I can't even imagine what would be going trough my head at that moment, but I know for sure that I put the children first in any crises, and my priority would not be revenge, it would be to get the victim feeling safe. That's all.

I have had the "pleasure" of learning just how much I love my kids, trough serious health issues waiting to be diagnosed. We had every reason to expect our son to have heart problems, hell first day in his life his whole brain was scanned to see if he's a vegetable, every organ of his was gone trough, and some day I have to go trough the pain of explaining to him, that because mother dearest had a flu while pregnant, you are missing an ear, and your jaw is growing crooked.

We got off easy, he's okay, happy and worth more to me than anything on this planet. It's been four years, but I still wake up in the middle of the night when I remember the feeling I got every time we had to go to the doctors office and I had to repeat to myself over and over and over again, that do not kill the doctor for not giving good news, that is not his job, his job is to find what's wrong. My perfect son, and they wanted to tell me about flaws.

I fucking know love towards a child, never doubt how much.
I guess it is more of a crime to question a parent's love for their child.. but nobody is perfect - it's easy to lose sight of this.
I agree it's a male/female instintive reaction that differs.. most men would go berserk instantly but most women wouldn't. But there was that one case where a woman got a carving knife and carved chunks of meat off the back of the perp.. that was gruesome.
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I guess it is more of a crime to question a parent's love for their child.. but nobody is perfect - it's easy to lose sight of this.
I agree it's a male/female instintive reaction that differs.. most men would go berserk instantly but most women wouldn't. But there was that one case where a woman got a carving knife and carved chunks of meat off the back of the perp.. that was gruesome.
Your comment was a good one, and I didn't take it as criticism. I'm a pretty solid parent, I do my best to ensure they will grow up happy, loved and with the skills needed in the real world. They have my time and they get to annoy me to death with subjects they know more about than I do and I feel the wight of the world every time I read or see news like this.

Haha, I do berserk quite well, and I assure you all, my soft side would hold as long as the child needs me, then the game would be on. My kids are my life, and I would not leave the matter to rest.

Revenge would come. I just would not take it at that time.
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I would have no problem killing the SOB, even if it means myself getting jail time. These scumbags have been proven to be incorrigible. The only way to stop him from doing it again is to put him six feet under.
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I would have no problem killing the SOB, even if it means myself getting jail time. These scumbags have been proven to be incorrigible. The only way to stop him from doing it again is to put him six feet under.
Unfortunatly all the stats support your statement. Chemically castrate the bastard.
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I would have no problem killing the SOB, even if it means myself getting jail time. These scumbags have been proven to be incorrigible. The only way to stop him from doing it again is to put him six feet under.
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Unfortunatly all the stats support your statement. Chemically castrate the bastard.
This is how I feel about people who speed, constantly weave in and out of lanes, and tailgate others on the road
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