Ex-gf back?

[squidlyboy]

Originally Posted by gixxerboy63

There was this girl that I dated some years ago in college. ...

8k3 - if, after reading this story, you are not in a taxi cab racing to the airport as she's getting ready to catch her flight, we are going to personally come over to Boise, punch you in the face, and make you sorry you ever started this thread

[Silvermike]

Originally Posted by gixxerboy63

I married her 7 years ago and we've been going strong ever since. Its almost a lifetime story for women.

I could only imagine the joy u must have felt when she called. And the joy u continue to feel.

[Silvermike]

Originally Posted by squidlyboy

8k3 - if, after reading this story, you are not in a taxi cab racing to the airport as she's getting ready to catch her flight, we are going to personally come over to Boise, punch you in the face, and make you sorry you ever started this thread

The moral of that story was restraint. He let time go by. Emotions settled and then he acted not out of need. But from a calm and collected place. I don't think going all Hollywood romcom is the way to go.

[M3Bimmer77]

Dude this forum is for M3 guys!!! Cry baby at another forum.

[bmwhoo]

Originally Posted by 8k3

Call her? Never had to do it. Curious. She wigged out on me for very small things in the end which made me suspicious. Can't help but to miss her though months later. I don't want games (I typically don't), I have a feeling she will in some fashion by playing hard to get, want control, etc. If she does I'l like to make it clear I'm not down for that without pushing her away. I'm probably nuts for considering her, chemistry is what it is (it didn't hurt that she was smart and beautiful as well)

Dude...you may luck out if you do get back with her but this typically results in a toxic relationship and a viscous cycle wherein when she feels comfortable in your relationship being secure, she starts to wig out etc. again, then you freak out and grow distant and then she cools it, then things ease up, she feels comfortable, freaks out...etc.

Have gone through this myself and have also had trouble letting go, especially when there are redeeming factors in play...but you have to make a decision if its worth it and if you can be happy despite the inherent flaws

[Pig Farmer]

Originally Posted by M3Bimmer77

Dude this forum is for M3 guys!!! Cry baby at another forum.

[DocWeatherington]

Originally Posted by 8k3

Call her? Never had to do it. Curious. She wigged out on me for very small things in the end which made me suspicious. Can't help but to miss her though months later. I don't want games (I typically don't), I have a feeling she will in some fashion by playing hard to get, want control, etc. If she does I'l like to make it clear I'm not down for that without pushing her away. I'm probably nuts for considering her, chemistry is what it is (it didn't hurt that she was smart and beautiful as well)

Move on bro, their are reasons you aren't together. If those haven't been fixed, your just building, investing time, emotions into a bridge on a bad foundation.

[P1]

Let's move this one to OT!

[P1]

Originally Posted by M3Bimmer77

Dude this forum is for M3 guys!!! Cry baby at another forum.

Health and fitness is only for M3 guys? Strange...